author of this article is Teresa Nowicka
Think about your attitude as a mental filter through which you experience the world. Some people see the world through the filter of optimism (the proverbial glass half full), while others see them through the filter pessimistic (glass half empty).
Let me give you some examples, to explain the difference between positive and negative attitudes. A person with a negative
nastawiniem thoughts: "I CAN NOT."
person with a positive attitude thinking, "I CAN".
person with a negative attitude focuses on the issues.
person with a positive attitude is focused on solutions. A person with a negative
nastawiniem notes on other defects. A person with a positive
nastawiniem looking for good things in other people. A person with a negative
nastawiniem focuses on the deficiencies. A person with a positive
nastawiniem is grateful for all blessings. A person with a negative
nastawiniem sees limitations. A person with a positive
nastawiniem sees opportunities.
I can multiply examples, but I am sure you know what I mean. When I talk to my listeners about the attitude, I like to use the images. It helps people understand and remember what I said. Let me therefore roztoczyć this picture before you, Your attitude is your window on the world t . I could multiply examples
, but I am sure you know what I mean. When I talk to my listeners about the attitude, I like to use the images. It helps people understand and remember what I said. Let me therefore that roztoczyć picture in front of you: Your attitude is your window on the world.
Everyone starts life with a clear mental window
Let me devote a few moments to discuss why your attitude is your window on the world. We all start our lives with a positive attitude - or otherwise, with a clear mind. Look at the children. I still laugh and giggle. By their very nature have a sunny disposition. They love to discover and explore new things.
Look at the example of the attitude of the child, who learns to walk. What it does when you stumble and fall? I'll tell you what does not. Not frowns and blames the carpet. Not complains to her mother or father that you gave him a poor instructions. Do not give up. Oh, no. She smiles, raises a second time and take another test. And another. Does so for weeks with a positive attitude until they do it well! His window is perfectly clean, and it just feels that he can conquer the whole world.
But, as you know, there comes a moment when life starts to throw things in our dirty windows. And then:
Our windows are splashed criticism of parents and teachers. Our windows are
kpinami peers smeared. Our windows are
smeared with rejection. Our windows are
stained by disappointment. Our windows are
overshadowed by doubt.
problem is that the dirt builds up and too many people do not do anything with that. Ida continue through life with brydnym window. Lose their enthusiasm. They become frustrated and fall into depression. And many people, which is tragic, lost its dream. That's because they failed to clear his mental window.
That was the road that rolls down. I had a dirty window when I was a lawyer. And the longer I stayed in this field, the dirtier it became my window. I did not see any possibility. How could I? My window was splashed with mud negative thoughts.
Wash your window
And then, thank God, I learned that everything I do is clean my window! I had to improve my attitude so as to be able to see again for a clean world. After I removed the dirt from my window, opened up before me a whole new world. Frustration and depression are gone. I had more confidence. First time in many years I was able to see the wonderful opportunities that life offered me. (...)
Do you know what I mean by saying that the attitude is your window to the world? Do you understand how your attitude affects the way of seeing all the things in your life? More importantly, if you start to see those places where your window needs cleaning?
That you control your attitude
Your job is to keep your window clean. Sure, I can not give you a little encouragement. Other people also can give you support. But ultimately, nobody can do it for you.
You see, you always have a choice. You can leave the dirt on her window and look life through a blurry glass. But you have to reckon with consequences that are not too nice. You walk through life depressed and frustrated. You will be unhappy. Reach only a fraction of what could be achieved.
is a better way. When you decide to draw a clear windscreen and windows, life will be more cheerful and brighter. You'll be healthier and happier. You'll put ourselves ambitious goals ... and you will begin to reach them. Your dream audio upgrade
excerpt from Jeff Keller, "Attitude is Everything", the translation Teresa Nowicka
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