author of this article is Teresa Nowicka
difference between a successful person and a man of conviction voluntarily to the failure lies in the kind of questions. A man of success asks: What else can I do now / today what will bring me to my goal, I will live a better / more convenient / more abundantly tomorrow?
Man sentencing yourself to fail asks: How else can I indulge myself now / today, to feel better now, at this moment?
Everything depends on this simple point of view. Or are set for immediate enjoyment now, or want to have to get up and do what needs to be done, no matter when that happens whether you like it or not. Just because you can see the future (though not necessarily guaranteed) do benefit from this thing.
It's not magic, it is pure mathematics. It works in a simple dependency - the cause - effect.
Brian Tracy says: Everythnig counts. Everything counts.
Even small thing - the decision to take a specific action or non-enforcement of it, it can affect your whole life.
Jim Rohn in his book "The Five Major Pieces to the Life Puzzle " asks: Why do not people take action? And he answers: Because it seems to be doing something as simple as that niezrobienie.
It thus appears that the effective operation of the whole mystery lies in the ability to ask the right questions:
- Is this an activity you spend your time now will have an impact on my life tomorrow, next week, per month, per year?
- Is this what I watch, listen to what concerns my life, whether it is mere chaff, which let the stuff?
- Will focus on creating your life, or rather squandering it?
- What are the specific consequences in the future will be my decision whether or not to this particular action?
are things you need to do, but there are - and there are a majority - are not you, and you might want to do. And it is from this type of decision: "I do not have , but I want " depends on your success and success in life.
It is in moments of decision-making shapes August is your destiny. Anthony Robbins
average person knows for example that he must go to work, so it must wake up - if he wants or does not want to go to this work and work, or dark, it works (in the end we pay). But what about later? After returning home, and only depend on himself, which will devote his valuable time. Do you:
a) grabs the remote control to watch the series 2-3 in a row or series of messages on all the misfortunes and tragedies in the world, after which there remains nothing else but to go to bed with pain headache;
b) involve the computer, go to the next level in a game that completely has nothing to his life;
c) or for example, will teach English
d) will read a book on personal development and motivation
e) decides to play with the child or talk with your partner ..
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Every thing starts with the decision. Each action has its origins in the decision action.
People complain about things because they do not yet made a decision to change them.
It is sad that people are poor because there is still decided not to be rich. Are overweight and are niewysportowani because I have not decided yet to be lean and physically-disabled. Acting inefficiently wasting time because they do not yet decided to be very productive in everything they do . Brian Tracy
example, if you complain that you're obese, it's just dlateg as not taken the decision to shedding those extra pounds. If you complain about the lack of time, it means that you have not decided about it, to learn how to use it effectively. If you complain that you do not need others, you have not decided about to get involved and give something back. Similarly, if you complain that others will not underestimate or even ignore, that you have not decided about this, would be important for yourself ...
etc. It all starts in your head. So it would be folly to proceed as far and expect a different outcome.
the rule is in fact so that it is the choice of immediate pleasure or the decision to take no action results in a more severe feeling of frustration in the future rather than the decision to take action, which just does not have want, but know that it is beneficial in terms of your goals.
There are obviously things that you can not control. For example, where they were born, from what environment you come from, what your parents, if you measure, etc.. All this is of course an impact on your life. But it really is decisions you have made once you have shaped and made, that you are now to where you are . It's the decisions you make now affect how the will look further into your life, how will you prosper, what kind of man you are. You have all this influence.
elections. Decisions. Priorities. It all has an impact on shaping the quality of your future.
Jim Rohn describes the formula for failure. Defeat is not something that falls on the man suddenly like a cataclysm. Failure is the inevitable result of the accumulation of excessive (negative) thinking and decision trivial. In other words, failure is nothing more than the sum of these small errors repeated several każdgo day.
But why anyone would commit the same kind of error in assessing the situation and then be stupid enough to repeat it every day?
Because it does not seem to have this meaning.
In fact our daily działaia not seem to matter as much. Also because some minor oversight, but an adverse decision or a loss of only one hour generally does not result in immediate and is not something easy to measure.
Those who eat too much, they are exposed to health problems in the future. However, the satisfaction of that moment of relief in consumption overshadows the future consequences of this type of activity. People just do not seem to have it was so important.
Note that those who smoke , take this disadvantage of the decision itself hour by hour, day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year ... Because they feel no immediate consequences, they are not convinced that that would be any real meaning.
But pain and sorrow in the erroneous assessment of the situation is only postponed to the future. Such consequences are rarely immediate.
most dangerous attribute is its failure is subtlety. In the short term those little errors seem to make no difference. We do not feel like we did, after sustaining a defeat. By the time I do not strsznego happening in our lives, until we see no immediate consequences, just drifting from one a day in the second duplicating the same mistakes, thereby allowing the negative thoughts and words to go into our subconscious, taking decisions and adverse repeating the same adverse action.
It seems, therefore, that if you do not see a measurable result, repeatability is safe does not matter.
Do you think that people who achieve successes, are more resistant to the temptation of immediate pleasure box? No. They just decided one day that want to see more than just these few hours or days ahead . Acquired the literal belief that it will do today what will result in the future. Often, not even the closest and the results will have to wait. But such is the difference ...
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